Is that really necessary?

Why is it that as soon as I put a cute little bow in Ella's hair she thinks that she needs to rip it out and replace it with a banana that she has squished between her fingers? Probably the same reason she has this uncontrollable urge to reach down and grab the poopy diaper I have just taken off of her and swing it around like a toy, and then look at me and tell me "no no" while pointing her finger at me like im in trouble. Why does she have to throw a fit when I put food on her highchair tray, and then two seconds later start shoving it in her mouth like she hasn't eaten all day? Why does she have to throw a fit when she doesn't get EXACTLY what she wants right when she wants it, even if it is my cell phone that has already taken enough of a beating from her? Then when I give her a toy to distract her from my cell phone, she has to scream and throw it on the floor and act like she doesn't want it before she crawls over to it and starts playing with it like it's her favorite toy in the world. Why does she act this way???
I will tell you. It's because she is a girl and she knows she can get away with it. It's common knowledge among us girls that we can get away with this behavior, to some extent. Any girl who denies doing these things is a liar. All girls have acted similar to this at some point in our lives, some more than others. We know that someone will eventually give in, and give us what we want. In Ella's case, she knows that mommy will eventually get tired of this behavior, and that her daddy cannot resist the cute little innocent look she gives him in the middle of throwing a fit. Even when we dont get our way by acting like this, it's still fun to do from time to time, and it's a good way to let off some steam. However, I just wish that Ella would reserve this behavior for her daddy ;) Little stinker.